===== candle lighter/snuffer candle lighter: You are wearing panties and bra. There are several bottles around the room on the floor with candles sticking out of them. I'm sitting in a chair. Your hands are free or bound with very little movement restriction. You come to me and have me light a bra cup or front or rear of panties (one spot). You then go to one of the candles and light it with your burning clothing. Options are: 1) you fail to light the candle (you put out the burning clothing before the candle is lit). You return to me for a relight and retry, you choose the relight spot. 2) You light the candle, but extinguish the clothing before returning to me. We continue with the next candle. 3) You light the candle and return to me, I extinguish the burning clothing with a cold wet towel. You get to replace the burned article with a fresh article. candle snuffer: You are nude and your hands/arms are fastened, perhaps to a belt around your waist or to a collar around your neck. Loose enough for balance. We have several lit candles stuck into bottles that need to be snuffed and picked up. The bottles are all lubricated, however each may be lubbed differently, tobasco sauce on one, ky on another, perhaps a drop of cinnimon on a third, etc. Your job is to pick up the bottles one at a time and bring them to me by squating down and forcing enough of the bottle into you to pick it up and bring it to me. The bottles might be cold if there is ice water in them, or them might be hot. If you drop a bottle, the bottle stays and another one is added and you have to relight the candles as above. If you get the bottle to me, I remove it and it is set aside. Options for more "excitement": You are wearing panties, you must first burn a hole in the panties before you can pick up the bottle. Any panty fire is your problem until you bring the bottle to me. * You are wearing panties and the crotch is slit enough to get the candle inserted and the bottle, again, if you set your panties on fire, it's your problem until you've brought the bottle to me. * * You can put out the panty fire, but I won't help unless you safeword or appear to obviusly need help. Instead of candles, use small torches (dowels with cotton wrapped around them soaked in alcohol). ===== How about using the sub's nipples as candle snuffers - how long would it take the sub to put out 20 candles?!?!?! Depends on the candles and the holder;) The ones in the glass jars at the restaurant would have to be smothered from lack of oxygen. You'd want the candle holder to be tall enough that you don't do more then warm the nipple, you don't want 2nd degree burns or worse. I've been thinking about your suggestion of putting candles in a glass bowl before snuffing them. I hadn't thought of that, but you're right to say it will be better. Ideally we would want a bowl with an opening wide enough to let me lower my nipple into it, and with a candle tall enough for my nipple to go into the flame, but not so tall that I snuff it out physically. Obviously the bigger the bowl the longer it will take the oxygen to be used up (something spherical would be ideal). The problem with the above is if you actually put your nipple into or that close to the flame, you would get 2nd to 3rd degree burns. On the other hand, if your nipple was 5-10cm above the candle flame, it should get warmed, but not burned in the time it would take for the candle to burn out from lack of oxygen.. You could use this as a reward/punishment system. For instance you would say to me, "if you can put out X candles, you can do......", or, alternatively, "if you fail to out out X candles, you cannot do...../or I will do ....... to you". That sounds like fun. We could do something like, we'll tie you up and set your panties on fire. The panties will be allowed to burn for 10 seconds minus the number of candles you extinguish.