===== fire-sitting

First item is only clothing that is covering the area covered by panties
is allowed to burn, the rest is fire retardant and/or damped with water.

I can see several different scenerios here as far as things go.

I can see an option where we give you a couple enemas until you run
clean, then give you an enema to hold.  You sit on the fire and when
your bottom gets hot or after a couple seconds, release the enema to
help put out the fire and cool your bottom.

Clothing options (waist and above is for protection):

Jeans and panties, jeans may even be cutoffs (short legs).  Advantages is
good visibility on any material you're not sitting on.

Skirt/dress and panties.  length of skirt/dress (mini, mid, long?)
Disadvantage is impaired visibility of what's hidden by the skirt.
The crotch of your panties could be burning but hidden under the skirt.

Should legs be open, held open with spreader bar, closed, bound together?

How big a fire?  I'd tend to think a very small one, perhaps made of
toothpicks or very small twigs.  Lighter fluid on some cloth?

How do you end up sitting on the fire?  Do you just sit down?  Are you
lowered/dropped?  Do you roll over onto it?

Maybe the fire is a burning cloth with thumbtacks in it so you have both
the fire and thumbtacks to deal with.

We could but the tacks on the chair and set your bottom on fire.
Maybe use a little alcohol/lighter fluid for a quick start and you put
it out by sitting on the tack chair.

Could even do both, a small fire on the chair with tacks as well as set
your bottom on fire.

I think all we can do is experiment and see how it goes.  Perhaps to start
with you could just light a small fire and tell me put it out using only
my bottom.  There are loads of options though, so we can probably make
things much more sophisticated than that as we go on!  I must admit I
like the thought of being lowered on!!!  I just thought of an option,
have your nipples clamped and attached to something above you, the lower
you sit, the more the stress.  Use bungee cords or rubberbands to allow
lots of stretch.

For the putting out a fire scenarios, I thought we could use a stout 
wooden dining chair, with an asbestos board on the seat (again we are not
going to be starting a blaze sufficient to actually set the chair alight.
You could light a small fire on the board (using twigs, or fabric -
maybe with lighter fuel on), and it will then be my job to put it out
by sitting on it.  Again, I could wear a body, with strategic holes cut
in it.  We could then develop this by, say, having tacks on the board as
well - if I don't sit down hard enough I won't put out the fire, but to
do so means sitting on the tacks.  We could probably use the same idea
for breasts on thinking about it.

I think if we do things like this, we could both have great fun, with 
virtually zero risk of causing any serious burns.  What we want is to 
develop games which can be used to give first-degree burns to my 
breasts, pussy and bottom if desired (and less if that's what we want), 
but not more.  If you stand close by with the necessary extinguishing 
equipment, and we don't do anything stupid, I really don't think we 
should have any problems.

===== guess the chair

We could play a game of guess the chair.  We prepare several boards for
the chair, all have some twigs:

   This one has a cloth with 5-10 tacks.  The cloth is fire retardant
   so only the twigs burn.

   This one has a cloth with 10-20 tacks.  The cloth is fire retardant
   so only the twigs burn.

   This one has a cloth with 5-10 tacks and lighter fluid on the cloth.
   The twigs have been soaked or protected so the twigs won't burn.

   This one just has a cloth and twigs.

   Maybe some additional options.

You get to see all the options.  We then blindfold you or restrict your
vision so you can't see which I select.  I select one of the boards and
place it on the chair and light it.  You then sit and try to guess which
you're sitting on.  You must give your guess while sitting on the chair
and before any safewording or intervention on my part.  If you stand
up before guessing, that board stays in play.  Perhaps you have to not
only guess, but stay seated for a minimum time for the guess to count.
Correctly guessed boards are removed from play.

Options:
   If you correctly guess the board, you get fresh clothing.  If not,
   you wear the same clothing for the next try, which provides less
   protection.

   If you're wearing a skirt/dress, perhaps we put a little lighter
   fluid/alcohol on the crotch of your panties.  Adds an incentive to
   guess quickly.

   If you guess wrong, maybe we light a breast cup for a few seconds.

===== musical chairs

Prepare several chairs as above and then play musical chairs, however
there is just you and several chairs.  When the music stops, you have
to sit in the closest chair.  Maybe one of the chairs is plain and the
others are 'special'.