===== games We play some game, say poker. I use monoply money, you use poker chips. Each color poker chip represents some punishment, ie strokes with paddle/cane on specified part of anatomy. You also have a small note pad and can write down a special punishment and we negotiate the 'value' in the game. If I win, you get punished, if you win, you get to decide if you want to play another hand or not. Any game could have the rules suitalbly customized. It could also be I win, I get to choose the activity for the next time period, you win, you get to choose. I like playing games so any card/board game that could have modified rules to become a torture/sex game is of extra interest to me.